Yeah. Tis over and a strong message to others. We need an official dictated policy to get rid of such people.

It shall be online soon. Thanks for the encouraging words.

On to happier note, this is the link:
vinuthomas.com/Forums/...html#36191

Help me if you can.

Abhishek ur crossing ur limits. Your acting in a very kiddish behaviour. Such is not appreciated from a senior member like you. Hey okay if u think that the Indian Cyber Laws And Acts can do anything then ur mistaken. You cannot file a FIR against these guys. Hey guys listen ur streching this too far. I'M not supporting Redvapour , Ajay or Amtbansal and neither do im discouraging MR.Abhishek. Its just that ur streching it too far.

Hey whn the rubber streches in both ends and whn it gets cut in the middle both the ends get affected. i hope ur gettin my point.

And mr.abhishek dont try to scare anybody with the words like going to police. if u want to go then go...dont cry out here in VT. we are not stoppin u from goin. Im just here to advice u guys .

I want VT to become a big family with love and affection.

Right..
redvapour, ajay, n others commited a heinous 'crime' participating in the jessica thread.

something to ponder over.. abhi

was it crime enough for you to lock that thread..
was it crime enough that the situation got this bad n we had to debate over it in three threads..
was it crime enough that some wonderful members of this forum are forced to leave the forum
was it crime enough that you are filing an FIR with police .

if u ask me, it wasn't.
ask abhinav, ask pradeep, ask metalspree or even ask vinu..
if they thought that yes, its was irrelevant, that jessica thread would have been deleted as soon as it was posted.. but it wasn't.. just think of it, why

seriously, imo, you did over-react n the same goes for redvapour too when he went into that abusive mode.. we simply needed to hear from both sides, understand each other & it could have been done in a much more civilized way.. but....

i do feel sad for rv, aj, and i do feel sad for vt because i've been a member here since dec 04 and its just enthralling to see the way this site has progressed.. vinu is a gr8 friend and i simply adore him for the vision he has for VT.. but these over-strict policies, i can't really get them..

we need rules n regulations for a community forum to run properly
but we do need a cool n lively atmosphere for a community to 'flourish'.

@vinu, i guess you know that i really wish the best for vt, so plz take these as suggestions from a friend and not someone whose taking sides in a debate..

yours truly
thelord

by the way, i am only supporting abhi in his question for this forum being a non abusive forum. i don't know what happened with locking threads and unlocking but i feel that as long as messages are files under proper category - and if ppl make a mistake, mods can put it in correct place- then there should be every right to freedom of speech. but no personal except in a polished and civil way. i think the standard should be the IMDB board. if you go to the boards there, you will see lots of bitter wars but no abusive attacks.

LOL this must be the funniest thread of the year.. yea take me to the cops.. on what grounds that i abused you.man every soul here knows it was reciprocal so chillax , dont go on pipe dreaming of the possibilty of me apologizing n am here to stay unless am banned..everyone said its over but if so why does this guy have to start all over..man i challenge u, do ur best to get me to court..i might have no faith in our judiciary but am sure its not ur play thing..if i go down ( which is most likely a snowfall in the sahara - ill take u down too LOL). maybe we can tape the entire thing and send it to FOX for their next episode of COPS.

redvapour u also know and i also know mr.abhishek is talkin in the air.....forget it. ps-no offense abhi

Chill out guys. I think this forum is not a place to wash your dirty linen in public. I'm not sidelining with nobody. Its just my request to make this forum better. Let there be peace sanity henceforth...

ok am stoppin this discussion for good, the next time i talk bout this is when mr.abhishek sends the cops over to my home.. my lips are sealed n am not discussin this ever again no matter how abhi tries to instigate me.
cheers guys..

ruFF wrote:

Chill out guys. I think this forum is not a place to wash your dirty linen in public. I'm not sidelining with nobody. Its just my request to make this forum better. Let there be peace sanity henceforth...

Amen!

FIR ,Cops, Courts that too on a forum.. This makes me laugh aloud...hahaha

And if abhishek tried to file a case against somebody in a forum the police is going to laugh at his complaint and ask him to leave , coz they have more important things to do

Still cant stop laughing

In post #13 of this thread amitbansal made an allegation. The post has been edited to remove it and now reads just "hi".
Was that true?
Apart from the allegation, there was no abusive language or anything offensive to justify the edit, so who edited it and why?
I have been a witness to all the 3 threads in question, before they were edited and can pinpoint exactly where the problem started and when it was compounded.
Without going into details, I think that the problem was on BOTH sides and we need to forgive and forget.
Whoever was in the wrong needs to acknowledge, accept and agree to the part he played in escalating the fight before change takes place.
Sweeping dirt under the carpet will not clean the house.

Hmm..I thought everyone came to peace at last.

If someone has any personal grudges against somebody, exchange your email/ph nos and wage your battles on your own. DONOT, I say it again, DONOT make it public on the forum. But, as Thor said, lets forgive, forget and keep the house clean.

This is a lesson that every mod and member in the forum needs to learn.

What in God's name happened here?

Fellas... can we please drop this? I know how it gets when your egos get entangled with your debates.

Abhi, been a while since I've seen you around... good to have you back. Vinu probably started this thread to get the message of non-tolerance to issues like this out... it's slowly turning elsewhere.

Mods... Been a while since I've moderated around here.... but I'm gonna lock this up. Reading all these posts, I gather it started at the Jessica Lal thread... take a page out of that book... she's gone... so should all of this.

We're here to help and be helped. Lets all try not to get into it and let it go.

Cheers